March 18, 2008
Good Pick Up Lines- The Date Conversation
As I say before, good pick up lines are done and you need a different set of skills now to amplify her attraction for you. I have also talked about how to get yourself prepared before the actual date and how to filter out girls who are not serious in going out with you. The above are powerful skills you need to grasp and get it into the back of your mind if you want to have success with women.
In today’s extraordinary article, I am going to talk about the actual date itself. The first date is very important. This is the time where you are going to amplify her attraction for you. The first meeting is the only time where you can amplify her attraction for you as if you screwed up the first time, you won’t get another chance. So, let’s get the party started…
Let’s get the part of conversation settled. You already know her and have got her contact. So, don’t use any good pick up lines anymore. I have seen people who still uses good pick up lines like they just met. Also, keep in mind that the date is not a job interview. Many people have the mistake of treating the date as a job interview. Yea, I know you are there to judge her but asking her questions like she is in a job interview is going to screw your date up. Hence, avoid asking questions like her salary, what she does, how long she has been working. Remember, you are there to amplify her attraction for you, not employing her as your worker.
Now you know that your first date is not a job interview, what do I talk to her about? As a general rule of thumb, avoid talking topics like family, work, politics, the economy and your really boring life. Talk about your life if you really have a great and interesting life to share. Talk about topics relating to entertainment. They can be celebrity scandals, MTV awards, The Oscars or the latest TV shows like Desperate Housewife, Heroes. You can also talk about fashion stuff and how some celebrities screw up their wardrobe. If you know nothing about all these stuff, go do something about it.
Besides talking about things relating to entertainment, you can also talk about things that you are good at. For example, if you are very good at inventing new stuff, then talk about it in depth. Teach her something or two. Women love men that have specialization and offer to teach them something. Another alternative way to have a great conversation is to be good story tellers. We all have life experiences that are fun and interesting. Take that experience and share it with her. Just make sure they are really fun and interesting to listen. Master the art of story telling, they are excellent things to talk about.
Only talk about boring topics like work and politics when you are really out of things to talk about. However, if the women start talking about those boring topics, use it as your advantage and jokingly accuse her of being boring. Teasing is another way to have a great conversation so just have fun teasing her.
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