March 16, 2008
Good Pick Up Lines- The Pre-Date
So, you have know some of the good pick up lines and also how to get her out on a date that she won’t reject. Up next, I am going to share with you how to make your date successful.
The purpose of your date is not to create attraction but to amplify the attraction. By using the good pick up lines, you should already have sparked some attraction in her. By asking her out on a date the correct way, you have sparked even more attraction. Hence, the date is another step to further amplify the attraction she has for you. So, let’s get rolling….
You have dressed up neatly and tidily and ready to get rolling on your first date with her. Then, the phone rang and you pick it up. You heard something that you wouldn’t want to hear for the rest of your life. She cannot make it for the date. I am sure many of us have encountered this problem. And yea, good pick up lines aren’t going save you. DARN!
How do you go around solving this problem? Well, to solve this problem, you first have to prevent it from happening. When you ask her out on a date, do the “INSTABILITY TEST”. This test will test her if she really wants to go out with her. On the phone, out her to rate from a scale of 1 to 5, the number that she will turn up for the date. If it is below 3, cancel the date. If it is above 3, the date is on. Of course, if she really has something on, then you can’t blame her. Life is unpredictable; you never know what will happen. At this stage, save your good pick up lines for the next girl.
It is more ideal to have the first date to be a simple tea meeting. The reasons are simple. It won’t cost you much and if she turn out to be a psycho killer, you can run away easier. As for the location, choose somewhere that is near you so if you are really interested in her, you can proceed on to the next stage. Also, make yourself busy on that day so if the girl really turns up not your cup of tea, you have other things to do.
Don’t be too punctual and be about 5 to 10min late. By showing up early for your date, you actually lose power to her as she knows that you are interested in her. Furthermore, besides amplifying attraction, the date is also for you to judge her. You have high standards and you will not accept girls that give you second class behaviour.
It is also very important to get your mindset right before the date. You need to get your frame of mind set to the friendship mode. This means that you are treating her like your best friend that you have know quite a while already. By doing so, you make her feel comfortable with you and make your date much more successful.
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